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For all of you wondering about arranged marriages in the WMSCOG, they obviously happen. The WMSCOG is NOT the only church doing this.. look all around you. You’ll see more and more with time. Many times is because of the persons sexual orientation..Priest in the Catholic Church, pastor in protestant churches, etc.. that is because the law of Christ condemns homosexuals.. hypothetically speaking Apostle Paul was a full blown Homosexual himself.. 1 Corinthians 7 The very fact that you have lawsuits among you means you have been completely defeated already. Why not rather be wronged? Why not rather be cheated? 8 Instead, you yourselves cheat and do wrong, and you do this to your brothers and sisters. 9 Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men[a] 10 nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. 11 And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God… so all of you wondering about arranged marriages this is the only hypothesis that makes clear sense.. so if you’re one of those *** that left the church becau
This is what happens when the people who were young IN wms leave while they’re still young… Everything was so absurd it’s hilarious. You know they made them publically apologize for having a boyfriend or girlfriend-they literally made them apologize by saying this wms oath. … They think that’s “holy” … No it’s suppression… innately evil to suppress natural “wants.” They can’t even hug each other-males and females can’t touch there… (But they want to hug lol). It’s so sad-it’s almost like forbidden love (just not the romantic kind), but they want to hug each other! Koreans don’t hug, that’s so weird!! They don’t like to hug usually either. A lot of korean wmsers feel like it’s a chore to hug…
@mayor you’re talking about some foreign man ran interference on you talking to some girl you liked (that’ll piss any American guy off). Oh yeah, if they tried to marry you off-they thought you were “good.” Shockingly you fell, ran away…lol… They seemed to think i was bad anyways…lol. How many times did they threaten to kick me out? …i was supposed to have hope for Heaven, but one more wrong word and I’d go to hell they said. No i never did anything. They perceive things…
@thisguy1 i already wrote a reply. (When i got here they were like “Anon’s been on the site but said nothing!” (It shows when you get online). I was cracking up at that-they’re funny.
@mayor he and i are discussing our mutual disgust for gay bashing (homo haters). I could get up on a soap box and just go off about that till i die-like… I’ve just got to condense my reply thisguy lol
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This is the funniest site I’ve found
*press play button on screen…
Intro begins…
Mayor and mike says out loud" yep, this looks like another one of them love stories… "
*gets interested into what happens next…
*keeps watching love story alone at home on Friday night…
@anon the wms servants need a renegade? Hahaha . You kind of speak my language anon. I like your mindset, your sense of humor that is. I'm a wms member who left the church, who has gone rogue. But now realize it's a mistake since I don't have a south Korean at my side. It would be an emotional drama in the movies you know. Lol
Lol mayor -i was upset i never had a d.v.d. player to watch movies in a long time…lol Ooh 🙁 sad face @that
And no i don’t think you needed to “cool it down” bc you expressed you liked the forbidden Korean girl (wms would say cool it down). It’s always do the opposite of what they would tell us… Rather you need to heat it up. Lol. Jk… But i DIDN’T think you were over a “line” on the forum saying u liked her. Yeah the wms examiners who examine this site to monitor it are like “what is this thing they speak of-“liking someone,” “love” as most wms leaders don’t remember what it feels like to be in love or like (like i told you, one wms married leader said to her leader husband “i hate you,” flat out in front of everyone… And I’ve never seen married relationships so bad like wms-I’ve seen worse on Jerry springer lol, but in person I’ve never seen a husband yell at his wife like a wms leader did-it was the meanest thing i had ever heard. Then they go to church and lead a Bible study and I’m like…uuh… I hear the leaders admit they’re not in love anymore either…i was like…ok not only do i not want relationship advice from you, i don’t want any advice from you… Don’t try to tell people about “love, let’s go to heaven all day,” go home and not really love your spouse-that’s so…fake…work on your marriage that’s obviously off the hinges-you obviously don’t have time to tell multiple people they’re going to hell every day…lol. …
No it’s not a mistake-no woman on earth is worth putting up with that crap from the leaders or Gil/Joo all day. I mean, love is worth whatever-but you’d barely have time to even talk to her with being hired i mean enslaved to go preach every day…(between all the study meetings, preaching meetings, worships and the time it takes to drive from work straight to “Zion,” no you’d have just enough time to fight, and no time to talk (there’d be too much stress not to fight), no time to make up… You wouldn’t be watching the movie alone, you’d just have no time to watch the movie…or be told you were going to hell for not spending time like “the wise virgins.” Wms says you can watch some cheezy movies that assembly approved-this is all metaphorical, bc no one there really has time to do anything (the worst yelling i saw-that’s what it was about-she didn’t have time to pick up stuff at the store). It would be THAT kind of movie, THAT kind of drama, not the fun kind. Yeah i watched movies in wms (not as much as other members), but… If you really try to practice preach like they tell you to, preach to as many people as they tell you to… There’d be not just zero hours left in the day…so no, you wouldn’t be able to sit in your castle anyways (any time sitting you could wonder if you were the chaff, not the forceful man. It’s all crap bogus-what time can you have together married? Not Saturdays, well you work Mon-fri-well you have to preach Sundays… It’s all bogus. The purpose of life is to LIVE. it’s in the definition of the word, it’s not a mystery. Leaving wms is simply the BEST decision any ex member has made, no matter what other decisions they’ve made in their life.
What did you say? Heat it up? Lololol it can be arranged. Lol.
So she said "I hate you" to her husband whoa. That's cold.
Liking someone? Love? Yeah what is this language they are speaking?
The wms needs to give it's members some more time to rest, for recreation, for fun. They need to set up a dating department. Let the members mingle. Shouldn't all members be happy? Yes I think so.
Yes, we should apply for a job there to help the members date. Chaperones-we’ll make sure they only look at each other so intensely-and then make them take a break. (They’re not allowed to hold hands anyways-their “mom” says they’ll go to hell for holding hands). That is the saddest most pitiful existence. (You are an adult and you’re mom is still telling you what to do). They couldn’t make me stop listening to the radio-the other members “obeyed.” That was the only time i felt better or felt anything for those years was listening to the radio. That’s crazy to say you need to listen to only slow songs-that’s torture and NOT human.
@mayor (I’m not single though). A public post on that but… lol. Now that I’m free not a slave I’m just playing “too much.”
They need help-advice, something-i find it very hard to swallow the “it’s Jesus and his wife, Father and Mother,” and with their “perfect marriage” they can’t keep the members from verbally attacking each other…or at least from hating each other…”bravo” …
It’s fun to talk…
Apply for a job? Where again?
Make members look intensely? Lol. Not sure what that could do.
Slow songs are good. I like the all oceans are divided. It's a good track.
I couldn’t resist saying heat up not cool down when you said “maybe i need to cool it.” Cause i was like-“i don’t know him but i don’t quite think HE would say that either…” I think wms makes people feel like they’re doing something wrong when they’re NOT. with them everything is bad. You sound much too “bad” to have a check in your spirit over saying maybe you were in love with forbidden girl…(it’d be funny if she reads this one day lol). Oh and I’ve read your posts for way too long, like 2 years to think you’d say “maybe i need to cool it,” though i’ve never read any romance spheels on here so…
Apply for a job at wms to be the dating chaperone-then they could date-it’s chaperoned
I did like a lot of wms new songs (but not for in the car-not for at home lol, not only. I’d go to hell before i gave up real music for that long (music is the only way i feel really connected to God-not through wms music, but music where you feel alive, like popular radio. That was hell on earth for me-the times i tried to “obey” and not listen to the radio-i felt like i was dying and got so depressed for those days etc without the radio
Lol. You are funny anon. So the chaperones could date? Of course they could. Lol. But who would chaperone the chaperones? That's the question. I've never heard Romance speels on here either.
Forbidden fruit…
Lol.
Quote the wms needs to give it’s members some more time to rest, for recreation, for fun. They need to set up a dating department. Let the members mingle. Shouldn’t all members be happy? Yes I think so. Unquote
yeah except then they’d be almost like a normal church or too normal-what church has a dating department? …lol… The day wms sets up a dating department (or gives rest, recreation, fun or anything synonymous to those things…). Yeah the members should be happy-that’s just a little hard with their “mom” standing over their shoulders whispering sweet nothing’s about obey or else and singing them lullabies to bed about heaven and sometimes hell-that’s NOT normal-i mean for an adult to be treated like a child-monitored, in a controlled environment, having to get permission to even talk to or see someone they liked-noooo-adults are not kids (and Gil is the worst mom on the planet to me). Showcase her physical kids then if she’s that good or that God? It’s bogus. No one has ever heard a testimony from Gil’s daughters saying “oh she was so great, loving or anything.” They couldn’t even make up anything-and that’s all wms knows how to do.
No mayor-the chaperones chaperone so the imprisoned wms members could actually get to know each other prior to marriage (not vaguely). Lol. Someone would be there to make sure they didn’t hold hands or kiss and go to hell
Are you the energizer bunny anon? You keep posting and posting. Lol. I can too. I had fun this weekend and now I have energy keep posting.
No holding hands? No kissing or go to hell? Come on. Doesn't the church know that's the best part of dating. That's what Dr Phil would probably say. Lol.
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