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Hi my name's mat and a couple months ago my girlfriend was going through tought times with her job (feeling of being unappreciated) and ended up quiting, the night she made the decision of quiting a member came up to her and convinced her to join the church.
First I thought it was just another church and I went there one "sabbath" day i did about 6 studies and was starting to believe a little, even though i had doubts after every study. I hardly trust things right in front of me , I couldn't just trust someone who was trying to flip my views on religion. I did some research online and found this site,I watched many videos, read some of the evidence and even bought steve hassan's book, I was convinced this church was fake so I tried to show my girlfriend one of the videos. as soon as i pressed play she shut the screen off and we had one of the hugest arguements of our relationship. This was about a month ago, now i'm at the point where I dont know what to do, i showed her scriptures that should of created doubt in her head because she wont listen to me about anything unless it's in the bible, but even when i show her what's in the bible she takes it the way the poeple at her church tell her to understand and that causes more arguements. We been living together for 2 months now, fighting for a month, and now im moving out on the 31st, i'm afraid when i leave she'll become more involved with the church. I cant let her go because I know its not her fault, No normal person would ever put up with all this, we been talkin for about a year and i'm not willing to throw everything away because of this church.
She's a very combative person and every talk turns into an arguement soon enough when the church is brought up, she doesn't believe anything unless you show it to her right in your face.
I dont know what to do, help please
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